I love you, even when things are rough

Dear Oliver,

We've had a rough few days. You've had a hard time listening and have had to go to time out a lot. Last night you were very tired and upset. You went into the bathroom, locked the door and yelled that you hate me. I know you didn't mean it and that you were just tired and upset but it was still hard to hear. Today you had a really good day and tonight, after reading books with dad, you ran downstairs to give me a hug and tell me you love me. You then said, "I think Oliver is finally getting a hint about how to be a good listener." It was so cute and made me laugh. Another thing you sometimes say to me is, "I love you, mommy, even when we have rough days." (I might tell you that from time to time, too.) The days aren't always easy but I sure do love you.